1 Corinthians 14:40 (26–40) “But all things must be done properly and in an orderly manner.”
I don’t think that Paul’s was here establishing an order of worship we’re supposed to be observing today. Like in the movie Pirates of the Caribbean these are guide lines to help us keep a proper order when ever and where ever believers meet.
Again, Paul here describes what was happening when the church was meeting. People were speaking while others were speaking and of course to be heard they’d have to shout or create some kind of disturbance. And like in the 1960’s, here in the US, women and men were forgetting God’s order, 14:34 & 35.
To be sure, when the church meets, opportunities for everyone to serve and worship need to be made, but not for the purpose of attention getting, 14:37. When believers meet it should always be to encourage each other to continue witnessing no matter how hard life gets or Satan attacks, Acts 2:42.
Wisdom involves recognizing how God is using my story to influence the lives of others.